STRENGTHENING YOUR MARRIAGE
Lesson 2: Principle of Authority


  1. REDEMPTION PLAN TO ESTABLISH THE CHURCH
    1. Genesis 3:15 ,16 ,20 : God's mercy and grace given to Eve to become the means of the redemptive process, "the mother of all living." Here, again, Eve is told to submit to Adam and Adam to exercise his authority.
    2. Genesis 2:7 ,18 ,22-24 : Man was made from earthly elements, woman was made from the substance of man-the ribs over man's heart.
      • Woman is of substance, mother of life, giver of life. Thus, she has greater spiritual dimensions and the depth necessary in order to make up the "deficiencies in man." Man is incomplete and needs woman to complete him in order to bring forth the church.
    3. Ephesians 5:22-25 : Adam is the protector of life, given dominion. Man is to exercise control and authority to protect his wife from any harm whatsoever because his very spiritual effectiveness depends on her.
    4. 2 Corinthians 4:10-12 : Both husband and wife are to act in the redemptive process- daily dying to reactions of the flesh, meeting the other's needs, helping to remove the dross from one another, becoming one flesh in mind and spirit.
    5. Hebrews 5:8-9 : Through suffering, we learn obedience, becoming perfect as Jesus. Sin in us, and we still face the challenge of the world, flesh and the devil.
  2. PERSPECTIVES
    1. Ephesians 5:16-21 : Evil remains unless we replace it with righteous actions. Being drunk is being filled with the world's ideas, its philosophies, living by feelings, reacting instead of responding biblically in the power of the Holy Spirit. B.Romans 12:1-2, Ephesians 4:22-24 : Commitment is critical, and it all begins in the mind. Push out and cast away the garbage of self, the world's ideas, and dwell on God's truths.
    2. Philippians 2:3-4 : A Christian is a person who is governed by thought, by understanding, by meditation, developing a spirit of consideration for the interest and concern of others.
    3. Ephesians 1:17-19 : Know who we are, what we are, and what we can do in Christ Who is our wisdom, our strength, and our ability.
      • In ourselves, we are thoughtless, selfish, self-centered, individualistic, self-assertive, opinionated, resent criticism, impatient of others' points of view, and tend to be dictatorial, hyper-sensitive and usually "walk out" when things are not going our way.
      • There is nothing in ourselves to boast of; we are all damned, all lost, all sinners. Thus, we are in a good condition to forego all personal rights and seek the development and enhancement of the whole and of every other part.
    4. John 13:12 , Matthew 20-28 : Controlling principle is that Christ is the Lord of our lives. This is what rules and governs us. His life is our example ( John 14:21 .
      • We are to be servants to one another because Jesus taught us to be. He gave His life, and in gratitude we keep His commandments that His name might be recognized and glorified by our behavior.
    5. 1 Corinthians 3:11-13 , Philippians 2:12-13 : Works and reasons outside of the Word of God are always based on fear. The human standard is the sense- ruled mind which results in fear, sickness, worry, bitterness, etc.
    6. 1 Peter 2:21-24 : We are to live this life not because it is the thing to do or because others are doing it, but because Jesus did it as an example for us to follow, by His grace.
    7. Philippians 2:5-8 : Jesus' ultimate obedience, submission to the Father, even unto death, gives us the power and authority to do likewise as we submit one to the other, sacrificing our own needs to meet the needs of others.
    8. Hebrews 13:20-21 : A mind dominated by God's thoughts, nature and ways is a Word-ruled mind which is never prepared to fail.

Homework

Memory verse :
Philippians 2:3-4 and meditate on this verse.
Devotions :
Read and study Unit 2 in "Strengthening Your Marriage".
Preview:
Read the "Victory Over Failures Worksheet" and make a list of failures noted in reading of Unit 2.

Forms and Worksheets
BSAF: Bible Study & Application Form
Think and Do
Love Is
VOSWS: Victory Over Sin Worksheet
Dying to Self
Problem Solving
Freedom from Anxiety
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